Nicole Richie tries to hide from the photographers as she leaves a restaurant in Malibu with boyfriend Joel Madden in Los Angeles, California - (09/01/08).

Touring? Mary-Kate Olsen? Him just being Joel Madden? (LEAP)

Is Nicole being shortchanged?

A source told Star: "When Harlow was born, Joel said he wouldn't tour so much, but he hasn't slowed down at all. It's been hard for her to balance a career and take care of a baby by herself."